How did he propose?
On New Year’s Day 2012! We threw a NYE party the evening before. He said he wanted to take me to dinner on new years day to bring in the new year. When I was getting ready he stayed downstairs to watch TV. I came downstairs and the lights were down, candles were lit, and I had no clue what was about to happen. He was so nervous it was so sweet. He came over, got down on one knee, said that I make him so happy and he’d like to spend the rest of his life with me. He proposed I said YES! He had made dinner reservations at the restaurant we went to on our first date.
What was the theme for your wedding?
Finding the perfect theme that reflected Matt and I as a couple took awhile. I wanted something that encompassed us as individuals and a couple, unique, yet classy. I perused countless online blogs and Pinterest boards – I remember staying up late at night just searching around. During my search, I found many Barn and Vintage-styled weddings – they seemed to be trending a lot. We actually did visit a site that had a barn; however, it was a little too country for us. The vintage-style weddings were a little too eclectic. It wasn’t until I saw one specific element in a California mountain-side wedding that I knew exactly what the theme was. That element was a centerpiece in a wooden flower box with peach, ivory and sage-colored flowers. I remember thinking it was beautiful and exactly what Matt and I are! Matt is casual, laid back, outdoorsy guy, while I enjoy clean, classic, traditional elements, which is when I coined the term “casual elegance” for our wedding.
What wedding venue did you choose?
Brittland Manor Estates. The venue was probably one of the most important elements for us. We wanted something that reflected us as a couple while capturing the vision for the wedding. Once the theme “casual elegance” was set, the next step was to find the venue that would capture the look. It took us about 3 months of searching to find the perfect venue. During that time, we visited about 10 sites all around the DC metro area, from the vineyards of the Virginia Shenandoah region to the waterfront properties at Eastern Shore Maryland and everything in between. I stumbled upon Brittland Manor Estate one day on a blog, and I absolutely fell in love with the pictures of the site. We booked an appointment right away. I know this sounds cliche, but we knew it was “the place” as soon as we drove onto the property. It encompassed everything that was Matt and I, and I knew it would be the perfect vessel to bring my vision to fruition. The historic waterfront is secluded on 530 acres of riverside property with breathtaking views of the Chester River and appropriately manicured lawns and gardens that created a very organic outdoor setting. It reflects a vintage luxury feel both in the exterior and interior. The venue also offered a beautiful and romantic backdrop with its architecture and traditional design. An additional bonus was the 11 bedrooms inside the Manor that worked perfectly for us, and our family to relax and really get to know each other.
What are your top 3 tips for future brides?
1. For your theme, think about what best reflects you as a couple and individuals and incorporate those elements throughout the wedding. Your guests will enjoy all the personable elements!
2. Don’t be afraid of mixing elements! There are many beautiful weddings that have one type of flower or one type of linen and tables throughout the wedding. Don’t be afraid to mix and match those elements to give your wedding a unique feel to it!
3. Strongly consider hiring a day-of coordinator for the Wedding. It’s well worth the money to have someone there who will help you execute the vision and manage the timeline, making the day completely stress-free for you and your husband.
This featured wedding took place at Brittland Estates. The photography was done by Rodney Bailey and the flowers & decorations done by Intrigue Design & Decor. An Extraordinar Limousine provided the transportation.















